10 Best Techniques in Seduction

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As the art of seduction and pick-up has evolved from a relatively unknown network of men to a massive collection of aspiring artists around the world, its techniques and systems have also evolved a great deal. In this rapidly-advancing pick-up world, it’s important to introduce new concepts while also not losing track of the pillars that first led you to success.

In this compilation, the 10 best techniques in seduction, I try to include a various array of techniques and routines for many situations that one may encounter during an entire pick-up. Most of these items have been staples of the seduction community for a long time as importance to the community was a major factor in the selection of these techniques.

I hope that new pick-up artists can learn many things from this, and that veterans will get a tune-up on things that they may have forgotten along the way.

1. The Neg- Mystery

No list of the best techniques in the seduction community could possibly be complete without including the neg, which was created by Mystery. The neg has shaped the community unlike any other technique before and is one of the main foundations for the immensely popular seduction system The Mystery Method.

The neg is used to bring exceptionally attractive women off their self-imposed pedestals by pointing out their flaws in a sincere manner. When done correctly, it confuses these high-value women, since they are always used to men sucking up to them. It makes you stand out and they instantly become curious, since most men she knows wouldn’t dare mention a flaw of hers. The main purpose is to let her know that you are not like the majority of men and that you are a challenge.

A neg is sometimes confused by people and used as an insult, when this is not the intended use at all. A neg should be a sincere observation that discreetly points out a flaw or a problem. The most famous example is: “Ahhh, that's so funny, your nose wiggles when you speak!”

Deliver a neg with confidence and don’t fold afterwards, since that will ruin the intended effect of making yourself stand out from the rest of the AFC population.

2. Cocky and Funny- David DeAngleo

Although the concept of being cocky and funny is actually a main pillar of the method taught by David DeAngelo, it can be used as a technique when you sprinkle it in with many other things.

David DeAngelo was the first dating coach to introduce the concept of being “cocky and funny” to attract women, and when he did so in his book Double Your Dating, it revolutionized the community forever. Quite literally, the method of cocky and funny is being both humorous and challenging at the verbal level.

The key is to tease a woman but make it so funny that she can’t help liking it. It is fun, challenging, and interesting to women when used properly! For example, if you and a woman come to a door, the man using C&F would stop and say: “Aren’t you going to get the door for me?” Being cocky and funny is flirting in its most simple form. Use it to gain interest and attraction and to show that you’re a fun guy.

Remember to balance your use of the cocky element and the funny element to avoid being simply a jerk or too goofy. C&F is listed as a technique here, because you shouldn’t get absolutely carried away with it. It’s also very important to be able to have normal conversations with women without busting on them non-stop.

3. The Imaginary Points System

The Inner Circle The imaginary points system is one of my personal favorite techniques because it works on many different levels. It successfully qualifies girls, teaches them to repeat good behavior and discourages bad actions, and is a lot of fun to use! It can be found in The Inner Circle’s Crash Course in Seduction.

The concept of this technique is to give girls “points” when they do something good and take points away when they do something bad. If a girl does something especially nice for you, say “Thanks, that’s five points for you!” If she says something that you don’t agree with, take points off. Tell her, “That’s gonna cost you ten points.” Eventually, she will ask you what the points count for. You can use this as an opportunity to put her on a rewards system, where she can get something (be creative) when she reaches a certain point level.

This part can be fun for everyone! As simple as it may sound, this technique is great because it subconsciously makes the girl want to do things to earn points. It also shows that you’re not afraid to tease her and have a little fun, all very attractive qualities. Don’t go overboard with this and use it so much that it loses its effect, though. When used in moderation this technique is gold!

4. Evolution Phase Shift

Style Another classic of the pick-up community, the evolution phase shift was made famous in Style’s book The Game. Style created this technique to transition to sex more effectively and consistently. This endeavor was obviously very successful, as the evolution phase shift became a major part of Style’s arsenal and has been used by countless pick-up artists in the years since.

It begins with telling a girl she smells good, and while slowly sniffing the girl, describing how animals always smell each other before they mate and how evolution has hard-wired us humans to respond when someone smells us. After that, you relate that to how lions bite and tug at each other’s hair before mating, and give her hair a tug as an example. Then, you tell of how the most sensitive places in the body are the ones that are out of contact with the air, such as the crease where the arm bends. After this, you take the girl’s arm and erotically bite it there, releasing millions of endorphins.

Finally, you describe to the girl that a bite on the side of the neck is much more stimulating than anywhere else and invite her to bite your neck. Usually her bite will be weak, so you can take this opportunity to show her how it’s done. By now, she will be in the mood and ready to go!

5. Social Tornado- OrlandoMac

Award-winning dating coach OrlandoMac created the social tornado to meet many people in a crowded environment and send your social value through the roof at every venue that you attend.

The social tornado capitalizes on the premise that it is much better to start conversations and talk briefly with the new people you meet than to stick around and kill the good vibe that you’ve created. By circling around a place, smiling, and meeting many new people, you will become the life of any party. Once you meet and have fun with a group, leave to talk to another group. Eventually, you will run into groups that you have already talked with, and they will see you having fun with other groups, therefore raising your social value in their eyes.

After you circle around the area a few times, you go from just meeting a group the first time, to being more familiar with them the next time, to knowing them and being good friends after enough passes. After awhile, you will have the highest social proof in the room by being the link to each group.

The brilliance of the social tornado is that you can ride real hot with your techniques since you are jab and moving like a boxer. You can also do simple things such as be friendly, give compliments, high fives, and eventually you will be the VIP of the night with your pick of all the hot girls there.

6. Last-Minute Resistance Freeze Out- Razorjack

Razorjack uses a very effective form of the freeze out to combat last-minute resistance. Once you have tried many different things to get past her last-minute resistance and transition into sex with no success, Razorjack’s freeze out is by far the best option to turn to.

To use this, simply get out of bed and turn on the light. You can then check your e-mail, go use the bathroom, grab a snack from the kitchen, or even pull out a game of chess and challenge her to a game. The proper way to do this is to do whichever action you choose normally, like you would at any other time. If you do this correctly, it will perplex the girl, because it shows that you are not even affected by her unwillingness to have sex. Don’t be angry or bitter in your actions; simply act as if your sexual plug was pulled.

After a short amount of time, the girl will feel a huge sense of loss and desire to get back to the sexual state that you willingly surrendered. This will be enough to push her over the final last-minute resistance hill and she will be ready to resume, this time with the barrier crossed.

7. Push/Pull Complimenting- Derek Vitalio

Derek Vitalio, author of the popular ebook titled Get the Girlfriend, tackles the controversial subject of complimenting very effectively with his personal system of giving and then fractionating away compliments. Since overly complimenting a woman is needy and unattractive, some guys do the complete opposite and never compliment women.

Neither of these methods is right, and Vitalio has reached a great middle ground to solve this problem. His technique of complimenting requires every compliment to be on something unique that not many guys would notice, and not on a girl’s looks. Also, this technique sets forth that the best way to compliment is on a push/pull basis.

For instance, you could compliment her once on her hair and then start being more cocky and funny or just change the subject completely. You can also choose to “take away” compliments, for example: “You know, your dress looks great today, but I just can’t help but notice that one little stain on your sleeve from lunch.” The key in doing this is to make sure that your “take away” is small compared to the compliment that you’re giving, because you don’t want this to be an insult.

The brilliance of Vitalio’s push/pull compliments is that it offers the best of each mindset. It’s very important to compliment a girl correctly, and the unique and sparing use of compliments set forth by this technique will ensure that your compliments always come from a position of power.

8. The Girlfriend Test- Juggler

One of the pioneers of the pick-up artist community, Juggler has made many significant contributions to the game. The girlfriend test is one of the most popular techniques of all-time and it still holds its effectiveness to this day.

If you are doing your job correctly, the girl you’re gaming will eventually ask if you have a girlfriend. This is the perfect time to use the girlfriend test to turn the tables and get her even more interested in you. Reply to her question, “No, I don’t. Being my girlfriend is a very difficult to obtain and prestigious position. There’s even a test.” At this point, her curiosity will be extremely high, and she’ll ask about the test.

Get out a pencil and paper and give her the test. Juggler’s version consists of three multiple choice questions:

1. Which do you enjoy more? A shower or a warm bath?

2. What is the sexiest food? Whipped crème, chocolate syrup or strawberries?

3. What feels better? Kisses on your neck or nibbling on your ear?

The correct answers don’t actually matter, but you can tell her she missed the final question to give yourself a great escalation opportunity by saying “I can’t believe you think *insert option she picked, either kiss or nibble and do it to her* is better than *insert other option, also perform on her*.”

This is not only a great way to increase the escalation quickly, but the test itself proves that you are a challenging and selective man.

9. Trust Test- Tyler Durden

The credit for one of the best techniques to initiate kino from a cold start goes to Tyler Durden, the co-founder of the popular seduction company Real Social Dynamics, for his creative trust test. This is a great way for guys that aren’t completely comfortable with kino introduction to start things off in a sure manner, and also couples as a great IOI test.

During the early stages of an interaction, say to a girl: “You’re taking the trust test!” She will be naturally curious and agree to this, just to see what the deal is. Then tell her to give you her hands, putting your palms up for her to grab. The first thing you do is squeeze her hands. If she squeezes back, she passes the trust test. If she doesn’t, she fails the trust test.

After this, tell her if and why she passed or failed. If she passed, then you’ve successfully started off the kino escalation. If she failed, she will say that she does trust you and the test was wrong, making her open to any future kino tests or escalations from you anyway!

The great thing about the trust test is that no matter what the outcome is, you have introduced kino in a strong way with no risk of failure. The added trust that it actually builds is just a bonus!

10. Question Game- Mystery

It’s only fitting that the man that many consider to be the greatest pick-up artist of all time is the only man with two techniques on this top ten. In fact, Mystery introduced the popular question game and applied it to seduction in such successful way that it would be downright wrong to leave this technique out. I’m sure that there are tons of questions that you would want to ask girl, but most of those are just socially inappropriate and awkward to ask out of the blue. This is where the question game comes in.

The game itself is very simple. Each person takes turns asking the other a question. You can start the questions off tame, but then slowly start escalating them into topics such as past boyfriends, her first kiss, turn-ons, what makes her horny, etc. After you two have been playing for awhile and the game is already sexual, ask if she wants to kiss you.

Usually she will say “I don’t know,” which actually means yes (anything but no means yes.) If she says this, say “Let’s find out” and kiss her. Say “I knew you did!” after you get the smooch.

This is a great technique for many reasons. You can use this to ask questions that you otherwise couldn’t work into a normal conversation, to escalate things to a sexual level quickly, and even to get a kiss easily! The only thing to be careful with is that you shouldn’t get too carried away with the sexual questions.

Usually one or two of the example sexual level questions, especially if she responds well, will be enough for you to successfully ask the kiss question.

The above techniques are not intended to be used as a part of any system and would probably not work well if they were all used together. They are from many styles, but that is what makes the seduction community great.

There are a million ways that have been devised to accomplish the same goal and each way has its own benefits and drawbacks. The true fun is developing your own personal style and finding out what works best for you, and the only way to do that is through experimentation and experience.

Hopefully you will find a nugget of inspiration in one of the 10 techniques to get you through a problem or give you a new idea, as I know that I have benefited greatly from each one of these.

GoinPhoenix

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