The Alpha Male Axiom
How important is the Alpha Male in Seduction?
Much has been made of the Alpha Male and its importance on the seduction community. Many men aspire to the notion that if you present superior traits that you will attain all the female riches. So they go out into the field and try to Alpha their way into every group, and then try to out AMOG (Alpha Male of the Group) the AMOG of that particular setting without the knowledge of the group or herd.
This friend’s is fools mate, a recipe for disaster and failure. Yes on occasion out of audacity you might actually accomplish the feat but the majority of time you will fail because you lost to the home team advantage.
The Rules of Approaching Success
Why go into the field to make enemies and prepare to have encounters when you can just befriend everyone and get better results?br />
Now if you chose The Opposite (OT) entrance to the group then you are befriending the males or the females with the least value on your way in. Appreciating and valuing these important members is the best way in, with the least amount of resistance. They are also for the most part the best of the bunch anyways because of their lower perceived value.
Being a social person now I love to meet people, but early on I made it a habit when I was an introvert to go out and destroy that barrier (RoadBlock). I became exceptional at meeting people anywhere and anyhow. Now being a big dude I could have chosen to force my way through the door, but I learned that the most effective way was to generate good times and feelings with the people I met.
Of course it is true that Alpha’s do attain higher caliber women, but most folks in the community get it all wrong.
Gain the Power of Many in Dating
Truth is that the Alpha Group is superior to just one Alpha. Just after the wild Precambrian days when one man who was new to the village acted up the other men through consortium tore him apart for good measure, stoning him into a blood spot on the gravel carpet he came in on. The Alpha Group will always trump the most Alpha of males, so why is it there is a fascination with certain segments of the community to create an all out war in the field for a spotlight?
It is unnecessary to compete with the herd when you can befriend them all and get their help in the process. If you find yourself in an AMOG situation it is because you didn’t enter properly. It is your fault not the guy who is defending his stable. Now you wouldn’t try to land a plane on a rocky surface as it would end in a catastrophe, then why do some think it is good technique to land your social plane by force? I am sure carpet bombing the entire plantation will make many a friend and bring you great results.
So please gentlemen instead of learning every AMOG tactic in the book that will lead to all out war, try making allies instead, so when you do go to war you will have the support of all those around you.
Social Circles, Status, and Proof are the Way
My social circle techniques are all about activating the playful center inside of everyone and doing it in a way that you become the type of person that becomes addictive to the people around you.
When I was younger I used to Alpha over some bumps in the road, and since I didn’t lose too many fights I did pretty well for myself all though many nights were filled with drama. Then I smartened up and realized there was no need for it, by befriending the right people you could always get what you wanted.
So instead of staring at the competing Alpha in a room until I walked over and flattened him, I began to open every potential AMOG counterpart. With them as friends everything was different, especially in a big room if all the other Alpha types see that you are friends with all the other big boys, it will be in their interest to be your friend too. It is sort of the cold war technique, if you know they have a lot of nukes then you are less likely to fire yours, in case you get blown up in the process.
You have to appreciate some of the early anxiety of these situations is that the other person perceives you as a threat. If you open him, are confident, and friendly then you will no longer be perceived as a threat but as an ally.
I used my Tornado Technique to good effect by going around and whipping up a frenzied party atmosphere that people admired, and were drawn to.
So the only AMOG techniques you should worry about are the one that causes you never to face those confrontations.
That is the Alpha Male Axiom.
OMAXX
Paragon Project
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