The Apocalypse of Men’s Social Status
Help with Women and Dating
Let’s face the facts: Men are at an all-time low in social standing.
Women have become the dominant gender, they have rights, and they can do everything a man can do, if not better. Women have become the selectors, therefore have gained the upper hand and hence have superior social value. On a grander scale this has taken on huge sociological proportions so much so that lesbianism is on a huge rate incline because women are perceived as better.
Don’t believe me? Then answer me this: Why is it that a fat ugly woman can get laid every day of the week by different men, and yet a great looking guy is lucky to have more than one partner in a week? Also why is it that we glorify the naked female body in movies but rarely feature the male anatomy unless it is for shock value?
The Social Divide
Now we aren’t here to bash women, actually they are not to blame for this catastrophe of value. It is men that have dug this hole for our gender. Women are naturally pre-programmed to biologically search for a good mate. Men have just been excluding themselves without realizing it.
Let’s break down the social landscape for you, at the very bottom of the spectrum you have the Super Ugly’s 20% of females that are too grotesque or suffer from severe social traumas that they are alone, and have less value then basic basement dwelling men. Don’t ask me why but sexism still has some play in value even till this liberated day.
This is preceded by 95% of the male population from bottom to top. Then this group which includes the vast majority of males is preceded by the vast majority of women. 80% of females from bottom to top slide in at a higher value then the majority of males, all inclusively above their male counterparts.
Then top of the food chain for value is a rare lot of men that are either super wealthy (I mean Billions) or just have an understanding that defies their species and gender. These men have ample sleeping partners and women actually fight and claw each other to get to them. These men possess so much value that women will actually timeshare with other females and allow polygamous relationships to blossom, all in the name of the best mate.
Being a bartender and working in nightlife establishments this was an observation I made over time.
Should I Buy Her Gifts?
Like I mentioned earlier this apocalypse of value is down to us males, the majority of which have limiting beliefs and have adopted rituals in dating that completely devalue ourselves as a gender. We even fight over average women, and pedestal them.
Buying women gifts, dinners, and showering them with an abundance of compliments, all lead to reduced value. Good deeds are great, but when they are just disproportionate to the social standing of the two people who just met it comes off differently.
Women view it as this: He is doing all this to get in my pants, once he does he will be gone. This automatically reduces your value and lumps you in with the majority beneath them.
Are you Selling Yourself?
Just imagine if you were buying a used sports car, say an old Charger for arguments sake. From the ad in the newspaper the car looked in mint condition, and the price seemed very reasonable.
So you call and then go to inspect it further. On the outside the car looked great a real stunner, perfect paint job and everything glistened. So you think you have got a great deal on your hands for 20k so you begin to negotiate as that is what you do naturally. You suggest 20k sounds good but that you can’t afford all that in cash. The owner of the vehicle turns to you and says, “Ok how about 10k in full then for it.”
You get all confused, this car looks great why is he chopping the price in half? So you say ten in a confused tone, so the owner replies, “Ok 5 grand then.”
You start to wonder exactly what is wrong with this car, or whether there is a lien on it, or they stole it. It is too good to be true. There is an imbalance of value.
This is exactly what men do to women when they approach and shower them with gifts and compliments. Sure women love gifts and compliments in there due course, but not out of nowhere and especially when it is not merited.
Improving your Results with Women
They see a cool attractive guy who is confident approach so they are happy, when he starts to devalue himself, they lose interest. So any compliment out of the blue has that affect, it seems like you are trying to sugar up what already is sweet. How many women walk up to men and offer to buy drinks, or go out on a date with them and bring gifts whilst proceeding to pay for dinner?
This subject has constantly confused most men, and they are left unsure of what they should or should not do. They want to act the provider and show that they are a good candidate so they act in a way that devalues them and raises the value of the female.
It is as simple as saying you will get this one, and they can pay the next time. That way the value remains equal, leave the generosity till she is in a position to merit it later in a loving relationship. This will also separate you from the gold digging women, which is always a bonus. I used to request things so that I could show my generosity. I was famous for getting ladies to buy me drinks, so that I could get the value spike to allow myself to be generous in return.
A good way of doing this is this is saying:
Hey, I am having fun talking to you but I need a drink. Why don’t you go with me, buy me a drink and we can sit and chat for a little (this is a statement not a question).
This is a very casual, effective way, to isolate the lady (TOI), show that you are confident, in demand, and to DHV her with a value spike. If they ask why she should buy the drink, just say you will get the next nonchalantly.
How to Build your Self-Esteem through Value
So before you go out next time be cognizant of your value. Remember that you are the Trophy and if you shine yourself up right, by showing respect for not only the people you meet but yourself too, that everyone will see the value in you and will want to escalate your encounters.
Let’s face facts everyone likes knowing the cool, happy people, which have value. With a little bit of effort you will distinguish yourself from the majority of males, and will be able to handle women’s natural Tests of Value.
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