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Do Compliments Work To Attract Women?

There is a strong belief in the community that you should never directly compliment a woman; instead you neg and try to disqualify yourself.  As such, many AFC’s completely eliminate compliments as a tool for seduction.  The idea behind not complimenting a woman is more of a “better safe than sorry” concept.  A lot of men will compliment a woman wrong and try to kiss her ass thus being a DLV.  This article will explain the ideas and concepts behind complimenting a woman CORRECTLY.

The Do’s and Don’ts of Compliments

First off, DO NOT OPEN A SET WITH A COMPLIMENT, doing so will come off as needy and trigger her standard responses to get you away from her.  Think about it this way, if a woman is attractive; she has heard all her life that she is attractive and too many people have tried to spark a conversation with her by complimenting her on her looks.  The PUA is the exception to the rule.  So you may ask “Why even compliment?”, because you can use a compliment to be an exception to the rule.  (There is a concept that allows you to open a set initially with a compliment but that’s going to be explained in another article.)

Second, DO NOT COMPLIMENT YOUR TARGET WITH INTENTION OF SCORING POINTS.  You cannot compliment her with the intention of trying to get on her good side.  This gives the impression that you are chasing her and that she is the prize instead of the other way around.  If you’re getting AMOGged you cannot compliment the woman in an attempt to win her over, that will come off as needy and you’re shooting yourself in the foot.

Wait…I’m Confused

What you are trying to do is create intrigue and build attraction through the compliment.  You need to make it clear that you are complimenting her because you feel like complimenting her not because you want anything from her.  It becomes a value offering statement. 
Instead of your target thinking “Ugh…another asshole trying to get into my pants by calling me beautiful…” you want her to think “Wow…this guy is interesting”.  You want to use this to build attraction and have her chase you.  Now you’re probably wondering “I can’t open with a compliment, I can’t use it to get my foot in the door…what the hell do I do then?”

What to do

Interacting with a 3-set
You: “*DHV material*”
Continue with story and make eye contact with your target
You (like you just realized something): “…..”
Her: “what?”
You: “You’re very attractive.”
Her: “Thanks *smiles*”
You: “Mhmm *nods*”
Break eye contact and continue story to her friends
Her: *kino*

Oh I Get It…I Think

You already opened the set and began running DHV material.  Like normal, you did not interact with your target much.  This in itself is a DHV since she is an attractive woman and you are not really talking to her.  While you were interacting with the set you make eye contact with everyone, but when it came to her you held eye contact and remained quiet.  This brought about a curiosity so she asked “what?”  With the bait taken, you then gave her a genuine compliment but brought it about like it suddenly occurred to you.  This tells her that you did not approach the set because she was beautiful you did so because you are a high valued male.  This also creates intrigue because you did give her a compliment; but unlike every other guy you did not hold eye contact and try to score points with her, you simply carried on with what you were doing.  The woman starts to think “He thinks I am attractive…but he is not talking to me?  What’s this guy all about?”  She will then take it upon herself to figure you out. 
When other guys fed her compliments that was their only thought, but when you did it, it was spontaneous and charming.  That is the key to delivering compliments that bolster the attraction.  Also, the shorter the compliment the better; keep it short but sweet. You need to give her a compliment on your terms and completely forget about it once you said it.  She will continue to think about it but you cannot.  After that, you will be getting multiple IOI’s from your target and you can take that as a green light to escalate and isolate. 

Things to Think About

Just like life, everything in moderation.  The entire ides behind this concept will only work for an occasional compliment.  You cannot shower your target with compliments and expect to build attraction; all it will do is feed her ego.  Keep the amount of compliments low.  If you want to build some jealousy compliment the entire set, each on something different, and with a good amount of time between compliments.
The compliment is not a lost cause.  Like every other tool, it just needs to be used correctly.  Take what you’ve learned and have fun with it in field, no point in having a tool if you aren’t going to use it right?

Anubis

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